My simple Life

  people will always try to stop you doing the right thing if it is unconventional. Thus, I will learn to rely on my own sense of what's right, rather than looking for affirmation from others. Gauge whether or not I do so is to ask the following question: "Would I rather be considered the best lover in the world and know privately that I'm the worst- or would I prefer to know privately that I'm the best lover in the world, but be considered the worst?"
  I see through your flattery and finickiness. On the contrary, I will try to be comfortable saying NO far more often than saying YES.